Gloomy

Fair enoth.

Anything of value to add to the rest of my comment?

It’s good that this works for you. I’m sorry to here that you had too.

Other people wish to have a dedicated space to grieve their loved ones.

I am (honestly) interested to hear your other arguments against graveyards.

Well, the tree thing is reality for those that chose forest burials (at least thats a thing in my country).

I think we would run out of benches by lakes rather quick. Also, that is a thing already.

Keeping an Urn is not legal everywhere. I agree the it should be.

The thing is, that humans want to do something with he their loves ones remains. We are incredibly social creates, to the point where our bonds last beyond death. We have buried our dead for thousands and thousands of years. Neanderthals buried their dead. It’s just an extremely human way to process grieve, complete independent of any religion.

So having a dedicated space to do so makes total sense. Of course that takes up room. But I’d argue that having a park like, walkable and often very beautiful place in your neighborhood is a net win for everybody. Unless you think that we should also get rid of parks and other recreational areas.

And, you have the possibility to visit a dedicated place of grievance close by, which is sensible especially for elderly people.

This is not a position born out of logic and reason, but out of hate. I hope you get better at some point, you obviously have suffered a lot to become filled with rage this much.

Honestly I think that thinking that having a place for people to grieve their loved ones is a selfish thing is realy fucked in the head.